Teaching Your Kids About Disabilities

From a very young age, I've been intimately familiar with the world of disabilities. Diagnosed with SMA type 2 at just 18 months, I entered the public school setting as a four-year-old, the only wheelchair user in my school. This unique position gave me a firsthand look at how crucial education and exposure are in shaping young minds about disabilities.

Education about disability should begin early

My parents played an instrumental role in this process. They ensured not only that I had the necessary accommodations but also that I was integrated into the lives of my peers. From birthday parties to extracurricular activities, I was there, participating in my own way, very much present. This, I believe, laid the foundation for educating those around me about living with a disability.

The journey of awareness and acceptance begins at home, and it should start early. Three years ago, I embarked on a mission, driven not just by my experiences but also by a deep-seated conviction. It wasn't just about teaching my own children about disabilities; it was about providing tools for other families, helping them to educate their children about the diverse spectrum of human conditions, whether it's a disability or a visible difference.

Kids notice differences

The importance of this education cannot be overstated. Without open conversations, children might grow up perceiving differences negatively. Kids are naturally observant; they notice differences, but often they lack the framework to understand or interact with them. I believe, providing tools for young children such as books can help expose, and demystify differences and disabilities.

Yet, exposure is only part of the equation. It's essential for children to have opportunities to not just interact with but also to forge friendships with people who are different from them. Such interactions are more than just educational; they are a necessity, enriching their lives and fostering a more inclusive and empathetic society.

Demystifying difference and normalizing diversity

In my journey, I've realized that teaching about disabilities is not about highlighting limitations, but about showcasing diverse abilities and perspectives. It's about normalizing these conversations, making them a natural part of children's upbringing. When children learn to see the person first, rather than the disability, they develop a deeper sense of empathy and understanding.

I have been proactive in my community, speaking at schools, and advocating for more inclusive educational materials. I've witnessed firsthand how children, when given the right tools and opportunities, can be incredibly accepting and adaptive. It's about guiding them to understand that every person, regardless of their abilities or appearance, has value and should be treated with respect and kindness.

The parent's role is key

As parents and educators, our role is pivotal. We are the architects of a more inclusive future. By teaching our children about disabilities, we're not just educating them about a particular condition; we're teaching them about humanity, diversity, and the beauty of difference. It's a lesson that will serve them well as they grow into compassionate, understanding adults.

This journey of teaching and learning about disabilities has been both a personal and a universal one. It's a journey that continues, one conversation, one book, one friendship at a time. In doing so, we're not just changing individual perspectives; we're shaping a more inclusive and empathetic world for all.